Love is in the Air
Dating can seem daunting if you're always on the go, but it doesn't have to be that way. Traveling all the time doesn't mean that you can't find love. Whether you're between cities or countries, here are 20 tips to elevate your love life.
1. Use the Apps
Travelers can take advantage of the technological world we live in. Dating apps like Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge are a great way to start. You can usually filter based on travel or "abroad mode," which opens up a lot of potential.
2. Videos and Text
Travelers can text and video chat regularly to keep in contact and develop chemistry. Video calls are a great way to get to know someone when you're in different time zones. Texting and FaceTiming regularly is one of the best ways to stay connected until you are able to be physically present with someone.
3. Enjoy the Short Term
If you're a frequent traveler, you can actually take advantage of your situation when it comes to dating. Try to look for short-term, high-quality experiences instead of a long-term commitment. Go after a good time and real connections wherever you travel.
4. Coordinate Visits
Visit each other when you can, when you have the time, because you two get along really well. If you travel a lot, set up meetups so that you two can actually spend time together. Take turns going to each other's locations, so neither person is traveling all the time.
5. Travel Buddies
If you're a frequent flyer, you can meet someone who likes to travel as much as you do. It's a great way to start a relationship because it's not difficult to make plans or talk about. If you're already on a trip, having your partner with you will make it even more fun.
6. Flexible Expectations
Frequent travelers need to manage their expectations about dating. Most often, you are going to have to go long-distance. Talking and seeing each other irregularly should be expected when you're both frequently traveling. Learn to be patient and flexible to keep things going.
7. Long-Distance Relationships
The close relatives of frequent travelers are known to lead long-distance relationships. These require more effort and commitment, but staying in constant contact and managing expectations can help. With trust, patience, and some creative techniques to be physically close, long-distance dating can also be rewarding.
8. Stranger Danger
A basic precautionary measure is to avoid meeting in an area you're not familiar with or in a secluded place with a person you don't know well. Be sure to establish the conditions and location of a meeting and that the place is public and safe. Do not feel pressured into visiting someone's private residence, especially if it’s a first meeting.
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9. Free Tourism
A good way to bond with someone is to ask them to take you around their city if you feel comfortable and trust them. This will allow you to learn about their life, culture, and character in a way that is more interesting and fun than simply talking about it.
10. Public Meetings
If you meet a person in real life for the first time while traveling, be sure to do so in a public place. Meeting at a café, a park, or someplace that is well-frequented by people in general will help everyone involved feel more at ease. This also will allow you to better sense any chemistry you have with a person without putting yourself in too much danger.
11. Know the Culture
Keep in mind that dating and relationship rules and expectations can be different around the world. Manners and customs that are seen as polite and romantic or the "norm" in one country may be entirely different in another. Always be respectful of cultural differences, as this will help you avoid confusion and be a more pleasant person to be around.
12. Honesty
Frequent travelers should be clear about their expectations and the temporary nature of their stay. Being honest about your travel plans helps set clear boundaries and avoids misunderstandings. Open communication ensures both parties know what to expect, making the connection more comfortable and enjoyable.
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13. Go to Parties
Regular travel opens up a world of dating possibilities, and one of them is simply going to parties and events. There is no substitute for meeting people organically, and it’s also a more natural process than apps or dating websites. On top of that, it’s just a lot of fun to be out and about in the local scene.
14. Plan Trips Together
Planning trips together can be another great way for frequent travelers to connect. Take turns planning trips together to make travel an adventure you both look forward to. Coordinate the destination and activities for both of you to spend quality time and see new things together.
15. Airport Meetings
Airports are common places for people who travel often to make a date or connect with someone. These spaces allow people to have a wide variety of common experiences to bond over, as well as plenty of opportunities to start a conversation. If someone shares your destination, it's easy to talk with them in line or while waiting.
16. Book Your Own Room
Make sure to always have your own hotel room booked if you are a frequent traveler. It's always good to have your own space and a safety net when you're with someone new. Even if your date offers you to stay with them, have your own room to book as a backup plan. Keep your hotel booking to yourself until you are more comfortable around the person and can trust them completely.
17. Back Off if Needed
If a date is not going well, let your date know that you are being honest and you do not feel any chemistry. Also, do not worry if you end up single after a date. It does not always work out everywhere and not necessarily while traveling either. Always have a backup plan and make sure to value your safety, mental peace, and fun as a traveler in a foreign place.
18. Social Media
If you travel a lot or are a frequent traveler, there are other ways to ensure your safety. You can ask your potential date for their social media profile before you meet. This can verify that they are a real person and help you learn more about them and what they like.
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19. Don’t Get Hung Up
Don’t invest too heavily in anyone. As a frequent traveler, it can be easy to become needy with your dates. Try to remember to care for and be responsible for your own needs without relying on anyone to “fix” or complete you.
20. Date Yourself
Learning how to "date yourself" and feel comfortable spending time alone can make it much easier to enjoy a date when one is available. Booking yourself a nice dinner or a fun day trip when you have the chance to do so will help you not feel so needy on a date, as you'll have already been pampering yourself. A date is then a special treat rather than an absolute must.
